STORY - LUCKY ME (concluded)
Those who have been following the story closely may be feeling exited to know what happens after the Sunday sumptuous dinner. As for my self to be honest, although my wife Rabab had made excellent Kebab Joojeh and other items on the Thal, I could not enjoy as much as my son Murtaza and Noorudin, who were relishing every dish.
As a fond father, looking at them enjoying so much, I was feeling a little sad to broach the ‘thali’ subject, but was determined all the same, knowing my wife Rabab supported me whole heartedly.
It was crunch time – dinner was over, there was palpable tension building up inside me and suddenly there was POWER CUT.
It was in reality a blessing in disguise. It had rained steadily in the evening, so the weather was cool. I had replayed the scene many times in my mind earlier in the afternoon. My taking up the subject for discussion, finding Murtaza telling me – ‘ sorry Abba – we can discuss it later I have a project to complete ‘ the younger Noorudin as if on cue standing up and walking off to his room to watch TV. Multiple scenes played out in mind.
Those who are parents of growing up children can well empathize with my condition.
The POWER CUT proved to be a blessing – good food - cool breeze – family bonhomie on Sunday evening, motivated me to take up the ‘thali’ subject. I will not bother you up with all the details, some of which I have already written about – I found my sons in rapt attention – was a miracle working out.
Not a word.
Rabab encouraged by the silence response told us how she would love to share the same food with the family of Amina. Now Amina was her childhood friend, both went to school together in Lunavada, and from my wife I had heard many childhood stories of my wife always being in awe of her dear friend, who was smart, intelligent, helpful – once my wife started, she would go and on ……
However, two years back Aquilbhai who was a very successful businessman was struck with a paralytic stroke while at office, as a result of which his entire body was immobilized. In short the world of Amina and her son Hakim who was of same as my Noorudin and both were school buddies, went into a tailspin.
As Aquilbhai was running his supply business single handedly, as expected business suffered, creditors started knocking at their door, debtors started playing truant, medical Bills started piling. Aquilbhai died thereafter living behind a family who much against their wishes, started to become depended on ‘muvasaat’
Now dear Readers – the above circumstances are a fact, only other things are fictitious to protect the identity of the family. In my long years of ‘reaching out’ I have come face to face with so many such families.
Here I would I like to recall the resilience (khuddari) of one mumin bhai. I came to know of his plight after his wife was diagnosed with Cancer, and piling medical Bills and running about for treatment, completely drained out his financial capacity. He removed his son, who was very intelligent and smart from a good school were the fees were high.
I came to know about it and approached him to see if I could mobilize some funds for the schooling. In his own words – ‘ Asgarbhai shukran , but let me bear my own cross’ Tears swelled in my eyes, and I felt so humbled that there are such mumineen in this world. On that day frankly I felt proud to be born a mumin.
Was Aqa Moula (TUS) referring to such mumineen in his Munajaat Sahrifa 1432H – did he mean those who have been victims of circumstances -
ke jehni kadar k’um chhe – ehne baland karoo.
I put forward this question to my sons, and I put forward it you my dear readers ?
Please do reflect, and you will surely find spiritual bliss, and understand the importance of this food sharing.
Our family can easily have Canneloni Milanaise Style ( an ideal party dish – Tarla Dalal) but no we will decide to have the same ‘thali’ food, for we know that there is some ‘hiqmat’ in the initiative started by Molayi A’li Qdr Muffadal Saifuddin saheb (TUS)
LUCKY ME - the lights had not come on, and my sons with rapt attention were listening. As a family we agreed that yes we will take the ‘thali’ and surprise of surprise, my son had more updated information than me.
He said he is following the development with interest and being an MBA student, he is seriously considering doing a project on it. He had worked out the costs based on per person consumption of 125 gms rice (Gobindo bhog is cheaper and more nutritious than costly Basmati – we are not doing a ‘shaadi khana’ was his argument) 3 rotis – 25 gms mutton /khima – dal 50 gms and sabji 100 gms )
He said to bring down the costs , mumina ladies from affluent families who have Ayahs and other support staff at home to care, can volunteer their services one day a week. Six groups for six days a week can be formed and their husbands can be entrusted with daily bazaar.
Now it was our time to listen with rapt attention to the sage and practical advice of both our sons who were gung-ho and pretty exited.
LUCKY ME !! THE POWER CAME ON ! MISSION ACCOMPLISHED !
I stole an affectionate glance at Rabab and found her all smiles, and pink as peach. I thank ALLAH for having blessed me with such a wonderful family. END
DEAR READERS : I hope you enjoyed reading LUCKY ME but more important, many misconceptions and questions may have been removed. As for me I thoroughly enjoyed writing it, and being blessed to convey my thoughts and insights.
In the process I have used my imagination as well as facts, both have been deftly interlinked.
To conclude Rabab is my wife and as with ladies who love to hide their age I have made her younger by 11 years !!
Murtaza and Nooruddin are my two sons, but both of them died in their infancy. Had they lived both of them would have been strapping + 30 and apples of our eyes. In their premature deaths and sufferings I learnt a great lesson. There are no regrets, but fond remembrance. They taught me to live life in jest, and my writings, and my interaction with family and friends, is a living proof. I have two grown up children, and grand childrens.
A great life lesson I learnt from them was to empathize – to reach out to the suffering and the marginalized of the community, who are victims of circumstances, and not personal failures in life.
As Eckhart Tolle says in his best seller - A New Earth – these are the people who ACCEPT WHAT IS - they accept THE PRESENT MOMENT with fortitude. I feel it is for this particular section of the marginalized community for whom Aqa Moula (TUS) has referred so eloquently, in the Munazaat Sharifa, they must be in his thoughts, in his fervent ‘ilteza’ this Laylatul Qdr.
Dear Readers this story LUCKY ME I fondly dedicate to both my sons, who died in infancy. Any good that may come out from your reading, let it be their ‘sawab’ ALHAMDOLILLAH !
Abde Syedna (TUS)
Asgar Fakhrudin M 098312 42486
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Sunday, September 11, 2011
FAIZ UL MAWAID BURHANIYAH - 2ND POST
Story – LUCKY ME ( continued …..
Sunday morning I got up fresh and rejuvenated and braced up for the day with a light toast and tea breakfast. Rabab also busied herself in the kitchen, as we were going to have a sumptuous dinner of Pumpkin Risotto – Humus Bil Lahm – Kebab Joojeh the ingredients for which could not be had in ordinary market store, so after quick bath drove out to the far away Spenser Specialty food outlet.
On reaching there, the shop assistant told me that for pita breads I will have to wait for an hour, as fresh stock was being awaited. Under the circumstances I had no other alternative but to just chill out – so I headed straight to across the street Barista and ordered Hazelnut Mocha and Chocolate Chip Muffins.
One hour is a long, long time, and it was early morning, there were hardly any customers, and amidst tranquil surrounding I drifted back and started reflecting on the Abyaat Sharifas, which had provided so much solace last night.
Let me share my reflections - Dear Readers - if you find some erroneous thinking on my part, do correct me, I will be deeply indebted.
Abyaat Sharifa 71 -
Aqa Moula (TUS) expresses that there are countless desires (niyaat) which he longs to be fulfilled ….. ke jehni kadar k'um chhe – ehne baland karoo.
We mumineen are all DEEN na farzando of our beloved Bawa Shafiq – we are all ‘baland qadar’ in that sense – hope my Readers agree - than what does Aqa Moula imply by saying that ‘ qadar k’um chhe ehne baland karoo’
Spiritually we are all the same, but in certain section of the affluent society a wrong perception has taken deep roots based on purely materialistic outlook – the yardstick of success is wealth – you are counted and seen by the car – the house you own and the latest mobile and other gadgets you flaunt etc: Much can be written, but to make the point, just making broad references.
So is it not that by sharing same food – the social beneficial effects are many, the widening gap – the disconnect in bridged? What say you dear Readers. Is my reasoning faulty ? Please correct me then ?
The FAIZ UL MAWAID BURHANIYAH is a most important initiative of leveling the ever widening chasm.
Agreed ? O K let me proceed.
Abyaat Sharifa 74 - ALLAH ! Do help those who help their brethren with love and affection in overcoming the difficulties of day to day living and make good his brothers shortcomings.
Here Aqa Moula (TUS) is blessing those who come forward – those who are enjoying the best of material comforts and good life – to come forward and help those of their marginalized mumineen brothers. They have the world, they are self sufficient but they are still in need of mu’asaat (help) and this help only Moula and Moula alone can give as a boon.
For M’aad we will not need a Ferrari - a Hublot Euro BB but our Aqa Moula’s doa Mubarak – his doa Mubarak will infuse us with spirituality – humanity – love for our fellow mumineen brethren – it will make us walk the ‘siraat’ with joy and abundance resulting from sharing – in this case sharing the same food that my fellow mumin bhai in shukr is so happy to have with his family – it has eased him of financial burden also but the important underlining message is – WE ARE ALL ONE !!
So it is a Win Win situation for both the giver and the receiver.
As I was sipping my Hazelnut Mocha across the table I found a copy of Sunday Telegraph, 11th Sept: 2011 and having more time in hand, I took it up and glanced at the Front Page.
MY EUREKA MOMENT AGAIN !
I read with interest the headline story – ‘ Osama gone, hunger gnaws’ by K.P.Nayar
The ‘Food Stamp’ Programme cleverly renamed ‘ Supplement Nutrition Assistant Programme’ (SNAP) The growing number of Americans 46 million and ever growing - their plight – how they are being looked upon by other affluent Americans, made an interesting reading.
I immediately called for a Note Pad and Pen from the counter, and noted down excerpts, which you can read, and if you so desire, the entire News Report, by clicking on the below link.
https://docs.google.com/document/d/1aRgl3UIVwZn2C7vUNXBu9wZQ6LD8DMXio_zroKBDXb8/edit?hl=en_US
I am confident that after reading it, specially American mumineen and all those in the Western countries, will see the immense benefits of FAIZ UL MAWAID BURHANIYAH
How I wish some mumineen associated with the Press Organizations can file a report on the on going ohbat.
I received a call that my pitta breads have arrived, so I left Barista to collect it, at the same time feeling more confident to lay out the facts of the case more purposefully, after dinner, when I will be talking ‘basket’ with my grown up sons !!
To be continued……..
Continue Reading LUCKY ME
http://asgarf.blogspot.com/2011/09/faiz-ul-mawaid-burhaniyah-3rd-post.html
Sunday morning I got up fresh and rejuvenated and braced up for the day with a light toast and tea breakfast. Rabab also busied herself in the kitchen, as we were going to have a sumptuous dinner of Pumpkin Risotto – Humus Bil Lahm – Kebab Joojeh the ingredients for which could not be had in ordinary market store, so after quick bath drove out to the far away Spenser Specialty food outlet.
On reaching there, the shop assistant told me that for pita breads I will have to wait for an hour, as fresh stock was being awaited. Under the circumstances I had no other alternative but to just chill out – so I headed straight to across the street Barista and ordered Hazelnut Mocha and Chocolate Chip Muffins.
One hour is a long, long time, and it was early morning, there were hardly any customers, and amidst tranquil surrounding I drifted back and started reflecting on the Abyaat Sharifas, which had provided so much solace last night.
Let me share my reflections - Dear Readers - if you find some erroneous thinking on my part, do correct me, I will be deeply indebted.
Abyaat Sharifa 71 -
Aqa Moula (TUS) expresses that there are countless desires (niyaat) which he longs to be fulfilled ….. ke jehni kadar k'um chhe – ehne baland karoo.
We mumineen are all DEEN na farzando of our beloved Bawa Shafiq – we are all ‘baland qadar’ in that sense – hope my Readers agree - than what does Aqa Moula imply by saying that ‘ qadar k’um chhe ehne baland karoo’
Spiritually we are all the same, but in certain section of the affluent society a wrong perception has taken deep roots based on purely materialistic outlook – the yardstick of success is wealth – you are counted and seen by the car – the house you own and the latest mobile and other gadgets you flaunt etc: Much can be written, but to make the point, just making broad references.
So is it not that by sharing same food – the social beneficial effects are many, the widening gap – the disconnect in bridged? What say you dear Readers. Is my reasoning faulty ? Please correct me then ?
The FAIZ UL MAWAID BURHANIYAH is a most important initiative of leveling the ever widening chasm.
Agreed ? O K let me proceed.
Abyaat Sharifa 74 - ALLAH ! Do help those who help their brethren with love and affection in overcoming the difficulties of day to day living and make good his brothers shortcomings.
Here Aqa Moula (TUS) is blessing those who come forward – those who are enjoying the best of material comforts and good life – to come forward and help those of their marginalized mumineen brothers. They have the world, they are self sufficient but they are still in need of mu’asaat (help) and this help only Moula and Moula alone can give as a boon.
For M’aad we will not need a Ferrari - a Hublot Euro BB but our Aqa Moula’s doa Mubarak – his doa Mubarak will infuse us with spirituality – humanity – love for our fellow mumineen brethren – it will make us walk the ‘siraat’ with joy and abundance resulting from sharing – in this case sharing the same food that my fellow mumin bhai in shukr is so happy to have with his family – it has eased him of financial burden also but the important underlining message is – WE ARE ALL ONE !!
So it is a Win Win situation for both the giver and the receiver.
As I was sipping my Hazelnut Mocha across the table I found a copy of Sunday Telegraph, 11th Sept: 2011 and having more time in hand, I took it up and glanced at the Front Page.
MY EUREKA MOMENT AGAIN !
I read with interest the headline story – ‘ Osama gone, hunger gnaws’ by K.P.Nayar
The ‘Food Stamp’ Programme cleverly renamed ‘ Supplement Nutrition Assistant Programme’ (SNAP) The growing number of Americans 46 million and ever growing - their plight – how they are being looked upon by other affluent Americans, made an interesting reading.
I immediately called for a Note Pad and Pen from the counter, and noted down excerpts, which you can read, and if you so desire, the entire News Report, by clicking on the below link.
https://docs.google.com/document/d/1aRgl3UIVwZn2C7vUNXBu9wZQ6LD8DMXio_zroKBDXb8/edit?hl=en_US
I am confident that after reading it, specially American mumineen and all those in the Western countries, will see the immense benefits of FAIZ UL MAWAID BURHANIYAH
How I wish some mumineen associated with the Press Organizations can file a report on the on going ohbat.
I received a call that my pitta breads have arrived, so I left Barista to collect it, at the same time feeling more confident to lay out the facts of the case more purposefully, after dinner, when I will be talking ‘basket’ with my grown up sons !!
To be continued……..
Continue Reading LUCKY ME
http://asgarf.blogspot.com/2011/09/faiz-ul-mawaid-burhaniyah-3rd-post.html
Saturday, September 10, 2011
FAIZ UL MAWAID BURHANIYAH
A STORY - LUCKY ME
This story is a result of talking with a host of family and friends, not only in my city, but in many other cities and towns, over phone and on chats. There are facts deftly intertwined with imagination - I have tried to answer some of the questions being raised, the niyat is that it will provide my Readers with valuable insights and at the same time, the joy of reading.
Central characters -
My self - Asgar aged 50 years running own business and maintaining a study income and providing a decent standard of living to my family, and having a weakness for Tandoori Indian dishes.
Wife : Rabab aged 47 years. Home maker and an excellent cook .
Murtaza : Aged 23 years studying for his MBA and a lover of Fusion Foods.
Nooruddin : Aged 18 years in his final Year at School, has yet to decide on his future studies, has not given a thought , but of one thing he is sure, his love for Continental and Mediterranean food.
SO OURS IS A FAMILY WHERE FOOD PLAYS A CENTRAL PART IN OUR DAY TO DAY LIVING.
It is Sunday and our family is enjoying a sumptuous dinner of:
Pumpkin Risotto with Pickle Oil Ice cream
Hummus Bil Lahm and Kebab Joojeh
Tuwar pulao – palidoo – the favorite of my wife, and after toiling for the entire Sunday morning over the above 3 dishes, we as a family are very considerate to her, and do not expect her to make the elaborate Murgh Ki Raan where the making of galouti mixture for stuffing of Chicken, which requires the mixture to pass through the Mincer thrice is indeed a very tiring and time consuming process.
But my sons have made it clear that coming Sunday she has to make it or else they will be eating out – a notice which makes my poor wife shudder , to think of the costs of eating out.
I know the threat of eating out will work - come Sunday, and we will have Murgh ki Raan in our Thaal.
SO DEAR READERS THIS IS OUR FAMILY.
Now cut to Jumoa namaz two days back, where Janab Saheb appraised us of the salient points, the nitty gritty and most important the ‘barakats’ emanating for the individual, the family and the entire community at large from the ‘ FAIZ UL MAWAID BURHANIYAH’
He explained to all of us the a’ala niyaat and the significance of it, the haqiqats behind it are many , he said, which we fail to comprehend.
It is best known to our beloved Aqa Moula (TUS) and his Mansoos (TUS) who has started this very unique and far reaching initiative, first started in London. Aqa Moula (TUS) speedy recovery is miraculous and when Janab saheb said that come Muharram and Insa Allah we will be blessed to hear the shadaat of Imam Husain (SA) from the Imami Takht once again, these words brought tears in many an eyes, and I for one was convinced.
I made immediate enquiries at the Mawaid centre and came to know that on payment of Rs: 4,600/- per month our family of 4 will be delivered a basket of wholesome nutritious Bohri food, and on further enquiry was pleased to know that the khidmatguzars are putting in a lot of effort, and the niyat is that out of 100 baskets – 60 will be paid for and 40 will be free baskets. Great concept I thought.
But knowing my family and specially my two sons I found the task very daunting. Worry was writ all over me when I returned home from office, and my wife Rabab immediately noticed it, but was kind enough not to push the issue in the fore front. Saturday also she found me in a very sullen and brooding nature and I confided her the problem that was perplexing me. She had a few encouraging words for me as I left for office.
It was decided between us that after Sunday dinner we will bring this ‘basket’ subject before the children. I wanted to put my case very convincingly, and being a stickler for details, Saturday was spent on reflecting - Googling on the subject of sharing food. Many hours of searching resulted in one convincing article by Dr. Phil Birtie – the Role of Food in Empowering Communities ( Refer to my previous Blog post)
There is much to food than mere physical benefits of nutrition and health. A good point I felt. Encouraged by this lead I read more and more. I found out that sharing same food is a means of bridging the gaps between same members of the community, which has arisen because of different socio economic conditions. The seeming disconnect between the affluent class and the marginalized class of the same community – we are brothers all - 'mara DEEN na farzando' so lovingly referred by Aqa Moula (TUS) - he is our Bawa Shafiq - he is doing the tadbeer for our 'ma'ad' - emancipation – than why so much disconnect. It pains to see people so unconcerned at the plight of their fellow mumineen etc: Such thoughts made me fully engrossed, so much so, that I found difficulty in sleeping.
Luckily for me as I was tossing and turning and try to understand the truths behind this unique ‘mohim’ and in order to find some solace and peace of mind, I took up to do tilawat of Munajaat sharifa 1432H
And started reading it, some thing told me an answer may be found here. As I read along I came upon the following Aby’at Sahrifa –
EUREKA !! HERE WAS THE ANSWER I WAS LOOKING FOR
As I turned the page the following Aby'at Sharifa made me more convinced.
A silent doa for my Aqa Moula (TUS) and his Mansoos A'li Qdr Muffadal Saifuddin Moula (TUS) escaped my lips and I went off to sleep.
To be continued Insa Allah .........
(I hope the message has been conveyed )
Continue reading LUCKY ME
http://asgarf.blogspot.com/2011/09/faiz-ul-mawaid-burhaniyah-2nd-post.html
http://asgarf.blogspot.com/2011/09/faiz-ul-mawaid-burhaniyah-3rd-post.html
This story is a result of talking with a host of family and friends, not only in my city, but in many other cities and towns, over phone and on chats. There are facts deftly intertwined with imagination - I have tried to answer some of the questions being raised, the niyat is that it will provide my Readers with valuable insights and at the same time, the joy of reading.
Central characters -
My self - Asgar aged 50 years running own business and maintaining a study income and providing a decent standard of living to my family, and having a weakness for Tandoori Indian dishes.
Wife : Rabab aged 47 years. Home maker and an excellent cook .
Murtaza : Aged 23 years studying for his MBA and a lover of Fusion Foods.
Nooruddin : Aged 18 years in his final Year at School, has yet to decide on his future studies, has not given a thought , but of one thing he is sure, his love for Continental and Mediterranean food.
SO OURS IS A FAMILY WHERE FOOD PLAYS A CENTRAL PART IN OUR DAY TO DAY LIVING.
It is Sunday and our family is enjoying a sumptuous dinner of:
Pumpkin Risotto with Pickle Oil Ice cream
Hummus Bil Lahm and Kebab Joojeh
Tuwar pulao – palidoo – the favorite of my wife, and after toiling for the entire Sunday morning over the above 3 dishes, we as a family are very considerate to her, and do not expect her to make the elaborate Murgh Ki Raan where the making of galouti mixture for stuffing of Chicken, which requires the mixture to pass through the Mincer thrice is indeed a very tiring and time consuming process.
But my sons have made it clear that coming Sunday she has to make it or else they will be eating out – a notice which makes my poor wife shudder , to think of the costs of eating out.
I know the threat of eating out will work - come Sunday, and we will have Murgh ki Raan in our Thaal.
SO DEAR READERS THIS IS OUR FAMILY.
Now cut to Jumoa namaz two days back, where Janab Saheb appraised us of the salient points, the nitty gritty and most important the ‘barakats’ emanating for the individual, the family and the entire community at large from the ‘ FAIZ UL MAWAID BURHANIYAH’
He explained to all of us the a’ala niyaat and the significance of it, the haqiqats behind it are many , he said, which we fail to comprehend.
It is best known to our beloved Aqa Moula (TUS) and his Mansoos (TUS) who has started this very unique and far reaching initiative, first started in London. Aqa Moula (TUS) speedy recovery is miraculous and when Janab saheb said that come Muharram and Insa Allah we will be blessed to hear the shadaat of Imam Husain (SA) from the Imami Takht once again, these words brought tears in many an eyes, and I for one was convinced.
I made immediate enquiries at the Mawaid centre and came to know that on payment of Rs: 4,600/- per month our family of 4 will be delivered a basket of wholesome nutritious Bohri food, and on further enquiry was pleased to know that the khidmatguzars are putting in a lot of effort, and the niyat is that out of 100 baskets – 60 will be paid for and 40 will be free baskets. Great concept I thought.
But knowing my family and specially my two sons I found the task very daunting. Worry was writ all over me when I returned home from office, and my wife Rabab immediately noticed it, but was kind enough not to push the issue in the fore front. Saturday also she found me in a very sullen and brooding nature and I confided her the problem that was perplexing me. She had a few encouraging words for me as I left for office.
It was decided between us that after Sunday dinner we will bring this ‘basket’ subject before the children. I wanted to put my case very convincingly, and being a stickler for details, Saturday was spent on reflecting - Googling on the subject of sharing food. Many hours of searching resulted in one convincing article by Dr. Phil Birtie – the Role of Food in Empowering Communities ( Refer to my previous Blog post)
There is much to food than mere physical benefits of nutrition and health. A good point I felt. Encouraged by this lead I read more and more. I found out that sharing same food is a means of bridging the gaps between same members of the community, which has arisen because of different socio economic conditions. The seeming disconnect between the affluent class and the marginalized class of the same community – we are brothers all - 'mara DEEN na farzando' so lovingly referred by Aqa Moula (TUS) - he is our Bawa Shafiq - he is doing the tadbeer for our 'ma'ad' - emancipation – than why so much disconnect. It pains to see people so unconcerned at the plight of their fellow mumineen etc: Such thoughts made me fully engrossed, so much so, that I found difficulty in sleeping.
Luckily for me as I was tossing and turning and try to understand the truths behind this unique ‘mohim’ and in order to find some solace and peace of mind, I took up to do tilawat of Munajaat sharifa 1432H
And started reading it, some thing told me an answer may be found here. As I read along I came upon the following Aby’at Sahrifa –
EUREKA !! HERE WAS THE ANSWER I WAS LOOKING FOR
As I turned the page the following Aby'at Sharifa made me more convinced.
A silent doa for my Aqa Moula (TUS) and his Mansoos A'li Qdr Muffadal Saifuddin Moula (TUS) escaped my lips and I went off to sleep.
To be continued Insa Allah .........
(I hope the message has been conveyed )
Continue reading LUCKY ME
http://asgarf.blogspot.com/2011/09/faiz-ul-mawaid-burhaniyah-2nd-post.html
http://asgarf.blogspot.com/2011/09/faiz-ul-mawaid-burhaniyah-3rd-post.html
Wednesday, September 7, 2011
FOOD AND COMMUNITY EMPOWERMENT
MY REFLECTIONS AND READING ON THE CURRENT INITIATIVE OF SHARING THE SAME FOOD IN OUR COMMUNITY AND A HUMBLE SALUTE TO ALL THOSE WHO ARE DEDICATING THEMSELVES TO MAKE IT POSSIBLE.
MORE SO IN BIG CITIES WERE THE LOGISTICS OF DISTRIBUTION IS A CHALLENGING TASK
Article : THE ROLE OF FOOD IN EMPOWERING THE COMMUNITIES - Phil Bartie Ph D
One aspect of community empowerment often overlooked in community development text books and teachings, is group eating ( our community encourages and fosters such group eating. we have it through out the year on different miqaats. The current initiative is unique, sharing the same food, irrespective of diverse social and economic standings !!)
As a social scientist can tell you, there is far more to food than its physical benefits of nutrition and health.
With whom we eat, when we eat, what we eat, where we eat and under what conditions we eat...... are all sociologically very significant.
(Under the present circumstances, we mumineen are well aware the niyat behind this community sharing of same food by all different strata of our community - the niyat is shifa e Kulli and umre darazi of our beloved Aqa Moula (TUS) The miraculous speedy recovery of Aqa Moula (TUS) is a glowing 'Aya't' ( incontrovertible sign) of the benefits and power of this and other initiatives being undertaken in accordance with the irshadaats of A'li Qdr Molayee Muffadal Saifuddin saheb.)
The author of the article makes a very powerful point by stating that : ' If logic and nutrition were the only concerns, we would all eat worms !'
The word 'comensal' is derived from the Latin ( root Arabic word meaning to share) In sociology eating together the same food together develops solidarity and trust. The concept of comensality in sociology simply means that 'people eat together'
This post I am specially dedicating to my younger brother Mulla MohammadB Mulla FakhrudinB Lokhandwala of Pune, who is doing the khidmat in overseeing the distribution of tiffins in his Tanzeem mohalla.
The logistics of distribution in big metropolis is really a challenging task, and knowing the inherent strength and dedication of our community, these challenges will surely be overcome.
There are unconfirmed reports of setting up a modern centralized kitchen complete with distribution network in Mumbai. In my own city the logistics of delivery are being worked out.
In cities like Patna having 40 households and Cuttuck having around 20 households, things are relatively easy. In towns like Godhra and in my own Lunavada, where mumineen live in Mohallas, it is relatively easy.
It would be interesting to see how distribution system is worked out in big cities. Mumineen who are involved in this khidmat can share their views. It would be a motivating at the same time a learning experience for others.
In Pune there are talks undergoing with a mumineen caterer who will be cooking and overseeing distribution of 72 tiffins. Interesting !
Tuesday, April 7, 2009
INDIA TV TENDERS APOLOGY
India TV tenders apology on its prime time news broadcast. We the followers of Syedna Mohammad Burhanuddin Saheb on account of his guidance and teachings, have shown exemplary restrain and have not been provoked ( a few exceptions - I had to remove a few comments which were not in conformity with our faith, culture and upbringing- though it reflected the deep hurt and anguish of the community and others by disgruntled munafekeens, who tried to fish in troubled waters, and tried to hijack the issue)
I think for the first time in the history of Indian TV Journalism has such an apology aired by a Channel within 24 hours, of its broadcasting an absurd and derogatory news footage. I personally feel it is all because of the Spiritual Personality of His Holiness, who is hospitalized, but his radiance and guidance, has saved the community from falling into a trap, and at the same time, has achieved is objective, of exposing the machinations of the enemies of the community.
The enemies within the community, thought that this an opportune moment, with His Holiness not keeping well, the community must be vulnerable, and some 'sick minds' tried to strike a blow, but I am indebted to all those, who came forward and expressed their hurt and feelings, in a most appropriate manner befitting to the teachings of Islam. Friends we also have played our small part in this victory.
The enemies of the community used the media in a most detestable and negative manner, where as we used the same media in a very positive and purposeful manner.
The first one out of the block was Sonia, and when I read her comment immediately after posting, I came to know that my post has reached the confines of India TV and efforts to hijack the issue has been started by vested interests.
Sorry Sonia, you found out that the Bohra community was different. They do not tolerate and succumb to rabble rousers. Otters like Sweety and AC 1513 took advantage of the open discussion forum to unsheathe their daggers. The lesson to be learnt, is one should not be provoked as electronic media has its advantages and pitfalls.
In such instances, over reacting gives an advantage to the opposite party, as they can easily highjak and defeat the main issue.
The India TV apology aired the comments made by PRO from His Holiness's Office, so now we hope and pray that the top management may be co-operating with the Dawat and spilling the beans, as to the persons behind this sordid drama.
As one friend had commented I would also wish that once Aqa Moula (TUS) regains health, the top Management of India TV should come forward and seek personal apology from His Holiness, and the same should be aired on their prime time net work.
I also feel that a few heads should roll at India TV for bringing disgrace to the News Channel. In this recession times, it will do the organization more good than harm.
May Allah grant a very speedy recovery to our beloved His Holiness Dr. Syedna Mohammad Burhanuddin Saheb (TUS) and may the peace loving Bohra Community, move forward, and set example to the world communities in matters of responsible citizenship, which has been demonstrated in this instance. Ameen.
I think for the first time in the history of Indian TV Journalism has such an apology aired by a Channel within 24 hours, of its broadcasting an absurd and derogatory news footage. I personally feel it is all because of the Spiritual Personality of His Holiness, who is hospitalized, but his radiance and guidance, has saved the community from falling into a trap, and at the same time, has achieved is objective, of exposing the machinations of the enemies of the community.
The enemies within the community, thought that this an opportune moment, with His Holiness not keeping well, the community must be vulnerable, and some 'sick minds' tried to strike a blow, but I am indebted to all those, who came forward and expressed their hurt and feelings, in a most appropriate manner befitting to the teachings of Islam. Friends we also have played our small part in this victory.
The enemies of the community used the media in a most detestable and negative manner, where as we used the same media in a very positive and purposeful manner.
The first one out of the block was Sonia, and when I read her comment immediately after posting, I came to know that my post has reached the confines of India TV and efforts to hijack the issue has been started by vested interests.
Sorry Sonia, you found out that the Bohra community was different. They do not tolerate and succumb to rabble rousers. Otters like Sweety and AC 1513 took advantage of the open discussion forum to unsheathe their daggers. The lesson to be learnt, is one should not be provoked as electronic media has its advantages and pitfalls.
In such instances, over reacting gives an advantage to the opposite party, as they can easily highjak and defeat the main issue.
The India TV apology aired the comments made by PRO from His Holiness's Office, so now we hope and pray that the top management may be co-operating with the Dawat and spilling the beans, as to the persons behind this sordid drama.
As one friend had commented I would also wish that once Aqa Moula (TUS) regains health, the top Management of India TV should come forward and seek personal apology from His Holiness, and the same should be aired on their prime time net work.
I also feel that a few heads should roll at India TV for bringing disgrace to the News Channel. In this recession times, it will do the organization more good than harm.
May Allah grant a very speedy recovery to our beloved His Holiness Dr. Syedna Mohammad Burhanuddin Saheb (TUS) and may the peace loving Bohra Community, move forward, and set example to the world communities in matters of responsible citizenship, which has been demonstrated in this instance. Ameen.
Monday, April 6, 2009
INDIA TV ABSURD AND DOCTORED NEWS FOOTAGE
The absurd and malicious repeated telecast by India TV of the re-marriage of a Taliban Terrorist Baitullah, on their 9 pm. News on 6th April '09 and the doctored photo of our Aqa Moula (TUS) inserted, with the sole purpose by the enemies of our community to cause hurt and mislead, is highly reprehensible and condemned in the strongest words.
In today's (07-04-09) morning news edition the India TV channel has retraced and said SORRY, BUT ALREADY DAMAGE HAS BEEN DONE AND AT THIS STAGE MERELY SAYING SORRY WILL NOT SUFFICE.
ONE OF INDIA'S MOST PEACE LOVING COMMUNITY THE DAWOODI BOHRA'S WHO HOLD THEIR SPIRITUAL LEADER HIS HOLINESS DR. SYEDNA MOHAMMAD BURHANUDDIN SAHEB IN HIGH ESTEEM, HAVE BEEN HURT BADLY. AS REPORTS POUR IN THE COMMUNITY ALL OVER INDIA IS RISING UP IN PROTEST. IN DAHOD A BANDH IS BEING CALLED.
THE PEACE LOVING COMMUNITY SEEKS ANSWERS AND ONLY WHEN THE PEOPLE BEHIND THE FARCES ARE EXPOSED WILL TRUE JUSTICE BE DONE. WE SEEK ANSWERS MR. ROHIT BANSAL ( Chief Operating Officer) WE KNOW YOU HAVE THE ANSWERS. WHO WAS BEHIND THIS SHAME. THE CULPRITS NEED BE EXPOSED.
THE REPORTING WAS FALSE - IT HAS BEEN CONFIRMED BY YOUR CHANNEL.
NOW TELL US WHO WAS BEHIND IT ? WHO GAVE THE IDEA OF INSERTING THE PHOTO IN A UNRELATED AND MOST IMPROBABLE SCENARIO. FALSEHOOD HAS BEEN EXPOSED - NOW THE BOHRA COMMUNITY NEEDS FACTS - ARE YOU GAME MR ROHIT BANSAL ?
In today's (07-04-09) morning news edition the India TV channel has retraced and said SORRY, BUT ALREADY DAMAGE HAS BEEN DONE AND AT THIS STAGE MERELY SAYING SORRY WILL NOT SUFFICE.
ONE OF INDIA'S MOST PEACE LOVING COMMUNITY THE DAWOODI BOHRA'S WHO HOLD THEIR SPIRITUAL LEADER HIS HOLINESS DR. SYEDNA MOHAMMAD BURHANUDDIN SAHEB IN HIGH ESTEEM, HAVE BEEN HURT BADLY. AS REPORTS POUR IN THE COMMUNITY ALL OVER INDIA IS RISING UP IN PROTEST. IN DAHOD A BANDH IS BEING CALLED.
THE PEACE LOVING COMMUNITY SEEKS ANSWERS AND ONLY WHEN THE PEOPLE BEHIND THE FARCES ARE EXPOSED WILL TRUE JUSTICE BE DONE. WE SEEK ANSWERS MR. ROHIT BANSAL ( Chief Operating Officer) WE KNOW YOU HAVE THE ANSWERS. WHO WAS BEHIND THIS SHAME. THE CULPRITS NEED BE EXPOSED.
THE REPORTING WAS FALSE - IT HAS BEEN CONFIRMED BY YOUR CHANNEL.
NOW TELL US WHO WAS BEHIND IT ? WHO GAVE THE IDEA OF INSERTING THE PHOTO IN A UNRELATED AND MOST IMPROBABLE SCENARIO. FALSEHOOD HAS BEEN EXPOSED - NOW THE BOHRA COMMUNITY NEEDS FACTS - ARE YOU GAME MR ROHIT BANSAL ?
Sunday, February 1, 2009
THE OBAMA EFFECT - IT SEEMS TO BE WORKING
What I admire of the American Democracy most, is the smooth transition of power after the election. Once the electorate verdict is out, there is no animosity and backbiting, at least in the public. There is a show of mutual respect by both the victor and the vanquished.
Many of our community members were very exited with the middle name of Barack Obama. I was amused by an SMS received which went something like Barack Hussain Obama, became the 44th American President on 24th Muharram – Ya Husain !! I simply replied back,) feeling sorry for being a damper, stating the last name of the atrocious dictator who killed many innocent Iraqis, mainly shias was Husain !!
So more than the name, the work of the man, his upbringing, his qualifications, his track record and past achievements, are important. Considering all these factors, people around the world at large and the American people have high expectations. But the task ahead is a very difficult one for the OA given the condition of the world economy.
However, within a short span, things are showing a CHANGE. Recently President Barack Obama minced not words in lashing out to Wall Street Investment Bankers, for taking home nearly $20 billion in bonuses, at a time when tax payers money was being given to them as bailouts.
He is sending out hard hitting messages, and this has already started to show results to some extent. The simmering anger against the ‘fat cats’ is receiving momentum and the Bankers and Insurance people are going on their back foot, for the first time.
A case in point is that lavish spending is being curbed, and John A. Thain, the former Merrill Lynch executive, who was forced out of Bank of America for renovation of his office that included an $87,000 (Rs 42.4 lakh) area rug and a $ 35,000 (Rs: 17.08 lakh ) commode !!! Good sense has finally prevailed on this high profile executive and he has confirmed that he will reimburse the Bank, the entire amount.
Citigroup has been made to see common sense in abandoning its plan to buy $50 million corporate jet. So results are showing, but the road ahead is still long and hard. Yesterday at a Davos Debate on BBC the Investment Bankers and Business Heads on the panel, had a harrowing time answering to pointed queries, as to why they should not shoulder the blame, and they oft repeated reply that the problem was not with their integrity and honesty, in most cases but with the problems in the ‘financial system’. However, their argument did not hold water, with the now fully aware audience and one lady Economic Professor and existing Merrill Lynch Director, made a show by stepping down from her stool. One Company Director confirmed that he did not know how the financial system was working, but as long as he and others were making money, it was fine.
According to some Investment Bankers on the Wall Street, they say that for all their ‘hard work’ they deserve the bonuses.
Is it for hard work or ignorance - a point to be considered. Ignorance of the financial system made them rich. However, hard they may try to justify, it was GREED AND GREED ALONE., that has resulted in this economic tsunami, the effect of which has started to be felt by countries around the world.
Many of our community members were very exited with the middle name of Barack Obama. I was amused by an SMS received which went something like Barack Hussain Obama, became the 44th American President on 24th Muharram – Ya Husain !! I simply replied back,) feeling sorry for being a damper, stating the last name of the atrocious dictator who killed many innocent Iraqis, mainly shias was Husain !!
So more than the name, the work of the man, his upbringing, his qualifications, his track record and past achievements, are important. Considering all these factors, people around the world at large and the American people have high expectations. But the task ahead is a very difficult one for the OA given the condition of the world economy.
However, within a short span, things are showing a CHANGE. Recently President Barack Obama minced not words in lashing out to Wall Street Investment Bankers, for taking home nearly $20 billion in bonuses, at a time when tax payers money was being given to them as bailouts.
He is sending out hard hitting messages, and this has already started to show results to some extent. The simmering anger against the ‘fat cats’ is receiving momentum and the Bankers and Insurance people are going on their back foot, for the first time.
A case in point is that lavish spending is being curbed, and John A. Thain, the former Merrill Lynch executive, who was forced out of Bank of America for renovation of his office that included an $87,000 (Rs 42.4 lakh) area rug and a $ 35,000 (Rs: 17.08 lakh ) commode !!! Good sense has finally prevailed on this high profile executive and he has confirmed that he will reimburse the Bank, the entire amount.
Citigroup has been made to see common sense in abandoning its plan to buy $50 million corporate jet. So results are showing, but the road ahead is still long and hard. Yesterday at a Davos Debate on BBC the Investment Bankers and Business Heads on the panel, had a harrowing time answering to pointed queries, as to why they should not shoulder the blame, and they oft repeated reply that the problem was not with their integrity and honesty, in most cases but with the problems in the ‘financial system’. However, their argument did not hold water, with the now fully aware audience and one lady Economic Professor and existing Merrill Lynch Director, made a show by stepping down from her stool. One Company Director confirmed that he did not know how the financial system was working, but as long as he and others were making money, it was fine.
According to some Investment Bankers on the Wall Street, they say that for all their ‘hard work’ they deserve the bonuses.
Is it for hard work or ignorance - a point to be considered. Ignorance of the financial system made them rich. However, hard they may try to justify, it was GREED AND GREED ALONE., that has resulted in this economic tsunami, the effect of which has started to be felt by countries around the world.
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